How to listen, validate feelings, and connect colleagues with resources after an incident.
Supporting the Affected Colleague and Aftercare
How to listen, validate feelings, and connect colleagues with resources after an incident.

Immediate support

Offer a private space to talk and listen without judgment. Acknowledge the person’s feelings and reassure them that you take their concern seriously.

What to say and what not to say

Use empathetic language, avoid blaming the victim, and avoid minimizing their experience. Phrases like "I’m glad you spoke up" can help.

Connecting to resources

Provide information about reporting channels, employee assistance programs, or confidential counseling. Respect privacy and consent when sharing details.

Follow-up

Check in after a short time to see how they’re doing and whether they need additional support or accommodations.